fear: A feeling of anxiety and agitation caused by the presence of nearness of danger, evil, pain etc; dread; terror; fright; apprehension
–Webster’s New World Dictionary
Let’s talk about fear ladies…
Fear of failure, but also a fear of success. I think a lot of us suffer with both these types of fear and it can be debilitating – and oh so scary. We are afraid of what others will say or think about us if we present ourselves as beautiful, or if we genuinely feel good about ourselves and let that fact be known. It’s the infamous double edged sword. Do I project confidence or is that considered to be arrogant?
It’s time for some real talk ladies!
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I just stood there. “Wow,” I said. I continued to just stand there; not because I was reveling in my top 1%-ness but because I had just taken out my contacts and this always places me in a very vulnerable state. “Yep,” he went on, “the top 1% of bad eyesight.”
“Great,’ I replied as I fumbled to feel my way to the ‘eye doctor chair’ so he could place all sorts of devices in front of my fabulously flawed eyes. Read more
- Sweep a light application of blush on the eyelids. (Yes, you can use blush as an eye shadow!)
- Apply the light shade under the brow to define the arch of the brow, and blend both colors in the crease.
- Apply the dark shade into the crease, and smudge into the outer corner. You can blend the shade into the bottom lashes to further enhance the shape of the eye.Use the Felt Tip Eyeliner Pen to create a winged cat-eye. Trace slowly along the top lash line, ending in an upward motion at the outer eye. You can keep building the line in thickness until you get the desired effect.
- Contour the cheekbones with the bronzer from the Highlighter/Bronzer Kit.
- Use the middle shade of the eyeshadow along the tops of the cheekbones for a pearlescent shine.
- Create a “stain” from your lipstick. Apply the lipstick using a makeup sponge or a sponge tipped eyeshadow applicator. This will create what is called a “bitten lip” or lip stain. A diffused, soft shade of red.
- Choose the color palette you want to work with.
You will need a light, medium, and dark shade. The light one should be slightly lighter than your skin tone. The medium should be slight darker than your skin tone, but still slightly nude in shade. Now have fun choosing what dark shade you want! Basic black, peacock teal, whatever your fancy is!
- Apply the light shade all over as a wash.
Pat the color all over your lid, from lash line to brow bone. Don’t worry about blending just yet.
- Line the inner rims of your eyes.
I like to use mostly black, but if you choose to match your dark shade, just make sure that your liner is waterproof and dark enough to line the inner rim solidly. Try one of those gel liners, I find they work the best!
- Smudge the dark color into the lash line, encircling the eye.
Use a brush that is short and dense, like a bullet brush. Smudge the dark shade in between the upper and bottom lashes, and blend over the lid. Do not go too far into the crease.
- Blend the medium shade into the crease.
Use a contour brush to pick up the medium shade, use this to blend all 3 colors together. Swish the brush back and forth through the crease like a windshield wiper. Also, twirl the brush through the crease using tiny little circle motions. The idea is not see where one color starts and the next begins.
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